Fernando Lamas challenges and difficulties
Lamas doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Fernando is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
He is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Fernando Lamas tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Lamas withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Fernando's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
He is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Lamas is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Fernando Lamas is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate his innermost feelings and thoughts.
Fernando Lamas tends to be emotionally shy, sensitive and awkward and may have difficulty expressing his true feelings, even when his affection is real. One of Lamas' parents may have been too strict and unloving, and as a result, Fernando may fear close relationships.
Fernando Lamas tends to experience inner conflicts between his responsibilities and his desires. Lamas may give preference to duties over desires, which makes it very difficult for him to be truly happy.
He prefers to work alone rather than with others. Content on his own, Lamas tends to become inhibited when he is with others, especially women. Fernando Lamas may feel that the effort required to be with others is too great and probably not even worth it.
His attitude toward life is quite serious and he is very thorough. Fernando has the need to be by himself and think out everything very carefully before he takes action. Fernando Lamas may enjoy doing some type of creative artwork involving hard or heavy materials.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Fernando Lamas instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Fernando Lamas needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Fernando Lamas' path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Lamas' actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Lamas' life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Lamas' ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Lamas' focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Fernando Lamas needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Lamas' unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in any involvements he has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Fernando Lamas is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
The following are specific activities that will support Fernando Lamas in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Lamas, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Fernando Lamas should develop faith and confidence both in himself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help him. He needs to expand his willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable him to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with his time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Fernando Lamas.
Fernando Lamas has a tendency to shy away from other people, and he reacts toward others in an almost fearful way. Lamas seems to lack confidence in himself and for this reason may feel that he lacks the ability to adapt easily to relationships with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Opposition Sun/Venus
Saturn Opposition Moon/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition Moon/N. Node
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Venus
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Moon/Saturn
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