challenges and difficulties
Fernanda Tavares takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Fernanda enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Fernanda Tavares also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Fernanda Tavares may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to her. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Fernanda may tenaciously cling to her grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
Her overall outlook on life is serious, and Fernanda Tavares may feel that life or God will punish her if she does not watch her steps!
Tavares may find it difficult to relate to people and express her feelings, especially in love relationships. On one hand, Fernanda Tavares wants relationships and on the other she would rather be by herself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Fernanda withdraw from others and feeling lonely as a result.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Fernanda Tavares instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Fernanda Tavares needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Fernanda Tavares' path lies in her development as an individual, the discovery of her own strengths and joys, the capacity to express her uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Tavares' instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Fernanda Tavares is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, she may believe that striving to do her personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Fernanda should let go of this notion. Finding her own center and doing what gives her delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Fernanda Tavares can offer the world at large.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Fernanda Tavares has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Tavares will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Fernanda Tavares in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Tavares, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
She needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Fernanda Tavares has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. She needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Fernanda Tavares has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating her ability to love and to receive love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 9th house
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Mars
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus