Eve Plumb in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Eve Plumb rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Plumb's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Plumb may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Eve difficult to live with. Eve Plumb needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Eve Plumb a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Eve's past are especially dear to her.
Eve Plumb may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
Eve has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Eve Plumb to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
Eve has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Eve Plumb, and she is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of her friends.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Eve Plumb gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Eve Plumb may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Eve feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Eve Plumb idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Eve Plumb craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Eve loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Plumb.
Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Eve Plumb possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Eve may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Eve Plumb may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Eve's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Eve Plumb is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Plumb is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Eve Plumb rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Eve is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Plumb craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Eve Plumb needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Moon Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
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