challenges and difficulties
Suplee is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Ethan Suplee may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Ethan.
Suplee is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Ethan Suplee does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Ethan Suplee better than being with groups of his own peers.
Ethan Suplee becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Suplee is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
He is inclined to exercise self-control and tries to suppress his inner excitability or irritability. However, Suplee can be somewhat self-willed and determined to be independent. If Ethan Suplee feels that someone is holding him down too much, he may suddenly break up the relationship.
Suplee is aware of his own shortcomings and is able to overcome many frustrations and limitations. He concentrates on his aims and goes about achieving them, even if he has to sacrifice something in the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ethan Suplee instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ethan Suplee needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
He is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on his path, but when under stress Ethan Suplee becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what he has, he is apt to ignore the subtle signals he receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Ethan Suplee needs to learn the limits of his ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for him. Suplee also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward his appetites and desires, as Ethan Suplee tends to overindulge and/or deny himself excessively.
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Ethan Suplee is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Suplee's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Ethan Suplee back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Ethan Suplee tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Ethan is overconfident and tends to overextend himself and take on more than is humanly possible. Ethan is often dogmatic about his philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Suplee always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. Ethan Suplee has a way of integrating the needs and feelings of others, while taking into consideration the proceedings of the association.
Ethan Suplee thinks of others before he thinks of himself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. He is deeply concerned with the community he lives in, loves his family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Moon/Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/MC
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mercury
N. Node Opposition Moon/Venus