Ethan Hawke
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Ethan should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Hawke often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Hawke's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Ethan Hawke insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Ethan does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Ethan Hawke feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Ethan Hawke has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Ethan sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Ethan Hawke is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Ethan cannot hide his emotions.

Ethan has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Hawke cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Ethan Hawke has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Ethan out for help, sympathy or advice. Ethan Hawke is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

There is another side to Ethan Hawke as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Ethan Hawke often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Hawke actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Ethan Hawke to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Ethan Hawke becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Hawke can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Ethan Hawke has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Ethan should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. He prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.

He is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate himself in solitude. Ethan Hawke seems to be too critical of himself and tends to generate distance from others.

In love relationships, Ethan Hawke desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Ethan "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Hawke can be very demanding of his love partner. Ethan Hawke tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Ethan Hawke is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Ethan Hawke very happy. Ethan wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Ethan Hawke may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Hawke is a natural host or diplomat.

He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Ethan's nature and Ethan Hawke feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Hawke. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Ethan Hawke has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Ethan's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Ethan Hawke is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Hawke is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Ethan Hawke and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Ethan allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Ethan Hawke, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Others may get the impression that Ethan Hawke considers personal relationships not very important, as he may pretend to have feelings for someone when he really does not. Ethan Hawke would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Sun/Saturn

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Saturn

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC