Erich Maria Remarque
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Erich Maria Remarque inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Erich wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Remarque lavishes on those he cares about. Erich Maria Remarque has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Erich Maria Remarque hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Erich Maria Remarque often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Remarque is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Erich Maria Remarque tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Erich Maria Remarque becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Remarque gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Erich Maria Remarque to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Erich Maria Remarque has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Remarque would react more intensely. Erich is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

Erich has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Erich Maria Remarque may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.

Erich Maria Remarque thinks big and is insatiably curious. He is interested in many fields, is talkative and a pleasant conversationalist. Kind, easy-going and optimistic, Remarque has good comprehension and excellent command of language.

His sense of reality is a bit weak; Remarque tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Erich may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Erich Maria Remarque cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Erich wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Erich Maria Remarque is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.

Erich Maria Remarque craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Remarque enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Remarque is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Erich Maria Remarque prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Erich.

Erich is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Erich Maria Remarque very popular.

Erich Maria Remarque loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Erich considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well liked. At times, Erich Maria Remarque overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets it.

Erich's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Erich Maria Remarque is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Remarque is to being left out or unappreciated.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Erich Maria Remarque in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Remarque is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Erich Maria Remarque at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Remarque is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Erich Maria Remarque has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Erich acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Erich Maria Remarque is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Erich and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Remarque's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 8th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Leo

Venus in 7th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Trine Uranus