Eric Winter
in Relationships
Eric Winter has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Winter expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Eric Winter dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Eric abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Eric Winter inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Eric is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Winter.
Eric Winter becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Winter feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Eric Winter has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Winter also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Eric, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Eric Winter tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Eric feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Eric Winter also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Winter to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Eric Winter may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Winter gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Eric Winter to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Eric Winter has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Winter would react more intensely. Eric is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Although Eric Winter was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Eric's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Winter's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Eric Winter is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Eric Winter that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Winter's neediness often drives others away. When Eric Winter does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Winter will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Eric Winter will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Eric Winter feels a certain soul affinity with them. Eric has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.
Eric Winter tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Eric may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Eric Winter responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of his environment and has a need to reform those around him. Eric has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Winter for guidance and direction, and he rarely lets them down.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Eric Winter cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Eric wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Eric Winter is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Eric Winter craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Winter enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Eric Winter very happy. Eric wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Eric Winter may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Winter is a natural host or diplomat.
Intimacy does not come easily to Eric Winter and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Winter does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Eric Winter needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
When it comes to love relationships, Winter is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Eric Winter has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Eric acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Winter may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Eric Winter craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Winter, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
Eric has the ability to share the abundance of love he feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Winter, and he has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.
His personal relationships are very affectionate. Eric enjoys the company of other people and has a harmonious attitude toward them. Eric Winter also has a sense of art and may decorate his surroundings very artistically.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 6th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node
Moon Opposition Saturn/Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto/Asc.
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.
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