Emma Borden
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Emma Borden has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Emma Borden is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Borden for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Borden's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Borden. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Emma Borden often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Borden thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Emma is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Emma Borden has good psychological insight into others.
She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Emma Borden often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Emma Borden is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Emma has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Emma Borden may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because she is so emotionally invested in it.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Emma Borden cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Borden's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Emma at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Emma Borden is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Emma Borden may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Emma desires.
For Emma Borden, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Emma greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Emma Borden needs to beware of.
Emma Borden shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Emma's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Emma Borden also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Emma likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Borden may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Emma Borden craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Borden, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
In contrast to the above-mentioned open, tolerant, live-and-let-live policy she adheres to in her personal and social relationships, Emma Borden has another, far more demanding and compulsive side when she is emotionally involved. She may become obsessed with having great material comfort, especially if she is unfulfilled romantically.
Emma Borden experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Emma Borden has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Emma Borden can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.
Her attraction to someone may come very suddenly and Emma Borden loves the excitement of new love relationships. But her attachments may be less than conventional, Borden changes them quickly, and she is likely to have many affairs. She may not be very selective in her contacts.
Emma has the ability to share the abundance of love she feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Borden, and she has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Sextile Pluto
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Square Jupiter and Venus Square Pluto
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Pluto
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