challenges and difficulties
She is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing herself freely and openly is not easy for Deschanel. Emily Deschanel tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of her "performance" is an important task for Emily.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Emily. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Emily Deschanel is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Deschanel wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Emily Deschanel has a tendency to be too critical of herself. She may be plagued by feelings of guilt about some past events, leading to further self-doubt. Emily must learn to handle her frustration, depression and discontentment and try to overcome her lack of self-confidence.
She prefers to work alone rather than with other people. Content on her own, Deschanel tends to become inhibited when she is with others, especially women. Emily Deschanel may feel that the effort required to be with others is too great and probably not even worth it.
Emily Deschanel has a sense of duty and responsibility, but may find it difficult to make up her mind and come to a decision. Deschanel is somewhat slow to act, and her need to be fully prepared inclines her to let good opportunities slip away at times.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Emily Deschanel instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Emily Deschanel needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
She is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on her path, but when under stress Emily Deschanel becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what she has, she is apt to ignore the subtle signals she receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Emily Deschanel needs to learn the limits of her ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for her. Deschanel also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward her appetites and desires, as Emily Deschanel tends to overindulge and/or deny herself excessively.
It is in her public life and career that Emily Deschanel is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Deschanel's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Emily Deschanel achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Emily Deschanel in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Deschanel, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Emily Deschanel should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Deschanel's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Emily Deschanel needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Emily needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Emily Deschanel should be willing to become more of a free thinker, to experiment and change, to loosen her ties to tradition and the known and to allow for new developments. She needs to practice getting involved in an area involving new techniques, rapid changes and innovation. Emily can be part of the avant-garde promoting such changes - be it in science, music or social relationships. Emily Deschanel has to be willing to be different and perhaps to be considered eccentric or odd.
Emily Deschanel has a friendly, open and sociable manner and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. She may enjoy participating in artistic events and she likes to associate with art lovers.
Her nature is a bit restless and unpredictable and because of this, others may see Emily as somewhat unstable. Emily Deschanel is inclined to involve herself with unusual enterprises and tends to become overly excited in the presence of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Mars
Saturn Conjunct Moon/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Venus
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Uranus