approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Elvis' basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Elvis Stojko comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Elvis Stojko - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Elvis Stojko" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Elvis a little better. This page describes the disguise Stojko wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Elvis Stojko likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. He is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. He is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Stojko must have something of his own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that he can develop and manage according to his own will and vision. Whatever Elvis does, he does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. He likes to put his own personal stamp on it.
Elvis Stojko also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats him in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Stojko will rarely confront the offender - he is too proud to do so - but he will lose his affection and respect for them. Elvis dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Stojko admires others who are strong individuals like himself. When Elvis Stojko befriends someone, Stojko is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. He is very giving and generous, but his gifts are never anonymous - Elvis expects recognition and appreciation for them. He also expects the intense loyalty that he offers to his dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Elvis Stojko often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as himself, for he does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If he is not in the leading role, he aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Elvis Stojko has great heart and courage, and people often look to him for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Elvis always puts his best face forward and rarely allows others to see him hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Elvis Stojko also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although he does not like others to realize just how important it is to him.
His outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. His own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Elvis more than anything else. Elvis Stojko feels that if he does his best where he is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
Elvis Stojko radiates a sense of pride, self-assurance and a definite awareness of his own importance. It is hard to ignore Stojko when he is present, and his personality may overshadow or dominate the scene.
There is an air of universal sympathy, gentleness and nonjudgmental acceptance about Elvis Stojko which draws people in need to him. Because he has a good deal of intuitive insight or psychic perceptiveness, Elvis is able to say or do just the right thing for them. Elvis Stojko needs to beware of fostering dependency in those people, however.
He is assertive and bold. Elvis Stojko is willing to be the first person to speak up and make his position known, and to strike out on his own if necessary. Elvis generally gets along better with men than with women because his approach is quite direct and sometimes tactless and insensitive as well. He can be a bit too forceful. However, Elvis Stojko's boldness is his calling card, and most people feel that he can at least be trusted to be honest with them.
Elvis Stojko comes across as responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities that encourage others to take him seriously. He is unlikely to present himself as more than he is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Elvis Stojko was mature for his age.
Elvis has penetrating insight into people and a keen eye and ear for the hidden, unspoken, behind-the-scenes facets of life. He may seem intense and make other people a bit uncomfortable at times. There is also a sexual quality in Elvis' manner which can be quite alluring, in a subtle way.
Elvis Stojko tends to be extremely hard on himself and others. He may have been brought up under difficult circumstances and now feels that life is very tough. Elvis does his duty, expects the same of others, and has no pity for anyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Trine Asc.
Neptune Trine Asc.
Mars Sextile Asc.
Saturn Sextile Asc.
Pluto Sextile Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/Pluto