Ellen Pompeo
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Ellen Pompeo only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Pompeo.

Ellen has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Ellen Pompeo has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Ellen Pompeo to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Ellen Pompeo has a great deal of emotional depth.

Ellen Pompeo may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Pompeo has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Ellen Pompeo wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Ellen is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Ellen Pompeo often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Ellen Pompeo is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Ellen has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Ellen Pompeo may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because she is so emotionally invested in it.

Her thinking is dictated by her feelings and Pompeo may rely on her intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. Her advice may often be sought and heeded, because Ellen Pompeo seems to know and understand what motivates others.

She is hard-working and tends to work till she collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Ellen Pompeo comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Pompeo must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.

In love relationships, Ellen Pompeo desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Ellen "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Pompeo can be very demanding of her love partner. Ellen Pompeo tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Ellen Pompeo is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Ellen Pompeo craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Ellen loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Pompeo.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Ellen's nature and Ellen Pompeo feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Pompeo. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Ellen Pompeo has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Ellen Pompeo puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Ellen Pompeo and she is not happy without a love partner. Pompeo can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

Ellen's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Ellen Pompeo is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Pompeo is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Ellen Pompeo and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Ellen allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Ellen Pompeo, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mercury/MC

Moon Conjunct Mars/Pluto

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Square Mars

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn