challenges and difficulties
Elizabeth Avellan has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Elizabeth is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but she may lack the capacity for joy and play. Elizabeth Avellan often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Avellan's that may inhibit her a great deal. Elizabeth Avellan must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob her of the playful, imaginative side of life.
Avellan is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Elizabeth Avellan does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Elizabeth Avellan better than being with groups of her own peers.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Elizabeth Avellan instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Elizabeth Avellan needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Her natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing her situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing her situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Elizabeth Avellan copes with stress. Elizabeth Avellan also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
Her development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Elizabeth Avellan to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Elizabeth Avellan to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Elizabeth Avellan has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The following are specific activities that will support Elizabeth Avellan in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Avellan, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Elizabeth Avellan's path to wholeness involves confronting her dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming herself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Avellan's willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for Elizabeth.
Avellan always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. Elizabeth Avellan has a way of integrating the needs and feelings of others, while taking into consideration the proceedings of the association.
She may have the feeling that she constantly has to surrender to the wishes of other people and she gives the impression of having a passive or indifferent role in her relationships. Elizabeth Avellan never takes the initiative and depends on the support of groups she is affiliated with.
Her relationships with others may be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Elizabeth Avellan avoids opposition and escapes her responsibilities. In her relationships she is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 11th house
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Neptune