Elissa Sursara
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Elissa Sursara denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Elissa Sursara needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Elissa Sursara also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Elissa Sursara may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Sursara has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Elissa Sursara wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Elissa is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
Elissa has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Sursara cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Elissa Sursara was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Elissa Sursara feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Elissa's emotional well-being.
In addition to Elissa's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Elissa Sursara craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Sursara rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Elissa has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Sursara craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Sursara and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Elissa Sursara is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Elissa Sursara often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Elissa Sursara is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Elissa Sursara tends to be a loner and is inclined to suppress her feelings. Other people think they know Elissa, but they never really do. At times she may withdraw too much and may alienate others. Elissa Sursara is also somewhat biased and may be torn by inner conflicts.
Elissa Sursara tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Elissa may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance her overly pessimistic views.
She is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to her surroundings. Elissa may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Elissa Sursara may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Elissa Sursara enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Elissa wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Sursara is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Elissa Sursara thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Elissa Sursara has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Elissa frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Sursara can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Sursara's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
Moon Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Venus in Aries
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Neptune
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