Elias Koteas
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Elias Koteas denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Elias Koteas needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Elias Koteas also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Elias Koteas has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Koteas also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Elias, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Elias Koteas tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Elias to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Elias Koteas may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Elias Koteas is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Elias must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Elias Koteas enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Elias wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Koteas is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Elias Koteas thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Elias Koteas shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Elias' generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Elias Koteas also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Elias likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Elias' pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Elias Koteas is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Koteas is to being left out or unappreciated.
He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Elias Koteas rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Elias is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Koteas craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Elias Koteas needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.
When it comes to love relationships, Koteas is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Elias Koteas has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Elias acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Elias Koteas is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Elias and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Koteas' interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 6th house
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Opposition Mars/Asc.
Venus in Aries
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
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