Douglas Fairbanks Jr.
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Fairbanks.

Douglas has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. has a great deal of emotional depth.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Douglas, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Fairbanks identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Douglas has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Fairbanks cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Douglas feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Fairbanks to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. feels a certain soul affinity with them. Douglas has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Douglas desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Fairbanks, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Douglas Fairbanks, Jr., and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Fairbanks and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. appreciates artistic people.

Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Douglas to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Fairbanks. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. to channel his passion.

Others may get the impression that Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. considers personal relationships not very important, as he may pretend to have feelings for someone when he really does not. Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 12th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Opposition Neptune/MC