challenges and difficulties
Wahlberg either overvalues or undervalues his possessions and assets. He can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Donnie Wahlberg may deny himself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of his labors. He may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Donnie Wahlberg feels that he does not have "enough" to make him feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) he has!
Donnie Wahlberg has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Donnie limits himself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in himself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Donnie Wahlberg difficult to get to know intimately, as Wahlberg tends to distance himself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Donnie Wahlberg tends to be very sensitive to his surroundings and is strongly influenced by the prevailing conditions surrounding him. Donnie may feel that he has more obligations than he can properly handle, and that it is hopeless to even try.
Donnie Wahlberg has a sense of duty and responsibility, but may find it difficult to make up his mind and come to a decision. Wahlberg is somewhat slow to act, and his need to be fully prepared inclines him to let good opportunities slip away at times.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Donnie Wahlberg instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Donnie Wahlberg needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Wahlberg's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Donnie Wahlberg has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
It is deep within himself, as Donnie Wahlberg faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Donnie Wahlberg keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Donnie Wahlberg back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Wahlberg's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Donnie sometimes abuses his own power to use others to his own selfish ends.
Wahlberg considers the ability to think and speak convincingly as the most powerful instrument one can possess. He always strives for intellectual control in his environment and tends to dominate his relationships. Donnie Wahlberg has a strong desire to be the spokesman in his community.
Donnie has the inclination to gossip and spread stories or he could be the subject of gossip himself at times. His perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Donnie Wahlberg may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Opposition Moon/Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mars/Jupiter
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Venus/Neptune