Donald O'Connor
in Relationships

Open and generous, Donald O'Connor enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. O'Connor rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Donald always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Donald O'Connor often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to O'Connor, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Donald O'Connor to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Donald's aspirations and ideals. Donald O'Connor also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Donald O'Connor often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when O'Connor thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Donald is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Donald O'Connor has good psychological insight into others.

Donald O'Connor craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Donald O'Connor to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to O'Connor. His domestic life may be very unstable - but O'Connor likes it that way.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on O'Connor's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Donald O'Connor is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Donald O'Connor possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Donald O'Connor will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Donald does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Donald O'Connor wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Donald O'Connor appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

O'Connor is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Donald O'Connor is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Donald uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Donald O'Connor does.

Donald O'Connor tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once Donald O'Connor enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Venus in Libra

Venus in 1st house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn