challenges and difficulties
Frimout either overvalues or undervalues his possessions and assets. He can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Dirk Frimout may deny himself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of his labors. He may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Dirk Frimout feels that he does not have "enough" to make him feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) he has!
It may be difficult for Dirk Frimout to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Dirk may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Dirk Frimout also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Dirk Frimout pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and he is willing to take his time, advancing slowly and steadily toward his goal.
Sometimes Dirk Frimout underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Dirk Frimout instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Dirk Frimout needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Dirk stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Dirk Frimout has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Dirk Frimout feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Dirk Frimout calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Dirk Frimout needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his public life and career that Dirk Frimout is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Frimout's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Dirk Frimout achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Dirk Frimout back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
The following are specific activities that will support Dirk Frimout in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Frimout, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Dirk Frimout should become more aware of the spiritual side of life and its underlying unity by getting involved in charitable activities and opening up his psychic channels. Meditation that develops Frimout's intuitive abilities, as well as learning about the unseen side of life through his own dream experiences or altered states of awareness, can be important steps in Dirk's path.
Moreover, musical and artistic or imaginative endeavors will be important to him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 5th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Conjunct Neptune