challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Drogba. Didier Drogba tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Didier.
He is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Didier Drogba tries to be strictly accurate and he is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Drogba withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Didier's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Didier Drogba instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Didier Drogba needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Didier stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Didier Drogba has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Didier Drogba feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Didier Drogba calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Didier Drogba needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Drogba's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Didier Drogba needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Didier Drogba back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Drogba's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in his life.
Didier has an inspiring, trustworthy and courteous manner, bringing lots of friends and acquaintances with similar interests into his life. His parental home is probably very harmonious and Didier Drogba feels strongly connected with his family.
Didier Drogba has a sympathetic understanding of other people and the ability to easily adapt himself to them. His emotional fulfillment is likely to come through his relationships with others and Drogba will probably feel a soul-affinity with many of them.
His relationships with others could be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Didier Drogba avoids opposition and escapes his responsibilities. In his relationships he is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Didier Drogba tends to have a certain fear of crowds and may find it hard to integrate himself into a group of people. Working with others is not easy for Drogba, and he may frequently encounter some upsets or hostility.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 3rd house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Venus
N. Node Opposition Sun/Moon
N. Node Opposition Moon/MC
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Saturn/Uranus