Desi Arnaz
in Relationships

Desi Arnaz responds very much to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Arnaz often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Desi Arnaz must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Desi's need for times of withdrawal.

Desi Arnaz is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Desi Arnaz takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Desi Arnaz has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Desi sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Desi Arnaz is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Desi cannot hide his emotions.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Desi Arnaz has a cheering effect on those around him. Desi likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.

His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Desi Arnaz seems quite peaceful and the next he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Desi has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Arnaz can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate, and often stormy and painful as well.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Desi Arnaz values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Desi desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to Arnaz, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Desi Arnaz appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Desi is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Arnaz places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Desi Arnaz feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Desi Arnaz falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Desi to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Arnaz' partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Desi Arnaz, and personal freedom is highly important to him.

Desi Arnaz loves deeply, passionately, and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional influence on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Arnaz may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 1st house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Find Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Trine Pluto