challenges and difficulties
Mr. November is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Derek Jeter may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Derek Jeter.
He is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with his duty, his public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Derek Jeter understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and he is capable of much self-discipline and patience once he sets his sights on a goal.
But Derek Jeter is very judgmental and hard on himself if he fails to attain success, and he can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize his efforts.
Once he decides what he wants to do, Derek Jeter will pursue his goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for his deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Derek Jeter feel a little out of step with others. Derek Jeter takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Derek Jeter feels and how driven he is about the things that are important to him. Derek Jeter has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to him, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
At times Derek Jeter struggles with nebulous worries, insecurities and fears that may be difficult to pinpoint. Mostly, he may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of his mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Derek Jeter has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if his religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting himself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Derek Jeter occasionally.
Derek Jeter has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on his own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Mr. November may be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express himself, thereby leaving a more negative impression than he intended.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Derek Jeter instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Derek Jeter needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Derek Jeter to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Derek Jeter needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Derek Jeter directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Mr. November's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Derek Jeter is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Mr. November's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
He may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Either Derek Jeter did not receive much affection while he was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Derek Jeter may find it difficult to show his love in his relationships.
Derek Jeter likes beautiful surroundings and knows how to create harmony in his environment. Derek Jeter loves to be around people and has a strong desire to be influential in social circles.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Mercury
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Venus/Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.