Debra Marshall in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Debra Marshall has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Marshall is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Debra Marshall seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Marshall tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Debra's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Debra Marshall substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Marshall gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Debra Marshall makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Debra Marshall needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.
Debra has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Marshall cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Debra Marshall has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Marshall would react more intensely. Debra is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.
Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Debra Marshall flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Debra Marshall feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Debra Marshall to learn. Debra Marshall should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
Debra Marshall has a great interest in everything and everyone around her and is constantly looking for people with whom she can establish deep inner relationships. Her judgments are based on her personal feelings and she has a strong need to be with others.
She is very ambitious and her energy is based on her feelings. Debra Marshall may feel that she has to assert herself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Debra could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.
Debra Marshall has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to her. She is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and she loves to give and receive social invitations.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Debra Marshall values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Debra desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Marshall, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Debra Marshall appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Debra Marshall craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Debra loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Marshall.
Debra Marshall is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Debra is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Debra Marshall professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Marshall a lot of breathing space.
Debra Marshall has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Debra frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Marshall can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Marshall's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Debra Marshall tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Debra Marshall enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.
Debra Marshall has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, she has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. Her outgoing personality puts others at ease and Marshall tends to discuss love and beauty with them.
She is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about her business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Debra Marshall does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 11th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Moon Opposition Mars/Uranus
Moon Opposition Jupiter/N. Node
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Saturn/MC
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