challenges and difficulties
Deborah Kerr has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Kerr knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyze or pick things apart mentally. Deborah Kerr may be something of a hypochondriac also. Deborah must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
She may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Deborah Kerr does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Deborah Kerr must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Her aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Deborah Kerr pursues her aims in a systematic, disciplined, and thorough manner, and she is willing to takes her time, advancing slowly and steadily on her way towards her goal.
Sometimes Deborah Kerr underestimates what is possible, and holds herself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Deborah could find it difficult to express herself and consequently she feels inhibited and lonely at times. She tends to isolate herself from others and her relationships seem strained. Conditions in Deborah Kerr's parental home may be oppressive and constrained.
Deborah Kerr has a tendency to feel inadequate, perhaps even unlovable, and she tends to withdraw from others. Consequently, Kerr may feel lonely and out of touch with everyone and that she has no support from anyone.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Deborah Kerr instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Deborah Kerr needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Deborah stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Deborah Kerr has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Deborah Kerr feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Deborah Kerr calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Deborah Kerr needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Deborah Kerr between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Deborah Kerr seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Kerr's task.
She is well-mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Deborah Kerr is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Deborah feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 12th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Moon
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Asc.
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Mercury