challenges and difficulties
Gibson either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Debbie Gibson may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Debbie Gibson feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
Debbie Gibson takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Gibson a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Debbie Gibson and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Gibson will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Debbie Gibson instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Debbie Gibson needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Gibson's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Debbie Gibson has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in trying to strike a balance between Gibson's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Debbie Gibson needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Debbie Gibson back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Being bound to past events and experiences because of her desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
She is a born leader and has the ability to persuade members of a group or association she belongs to. Gibson always promotes the fostering of good fellowship and teamwork, which ensures the success of any plans or joint undertakings she may pursue.
Gibson cooperates with others in a vigorous and energetic way. Her motto seems to be "one for all and all for one", and she feels strongly connected with others. In fact, Debbie Gibson looks upon other people as necessary for a worthwhile life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 7th house
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Sun/Mars
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mars