challenges and difficulties
David Spade often has a sense of longing or homesickness for something he cannot name or specify, and he may have both: great attraction toward, and fear of, mysticism and parapsychology.
Overcoming feelings of fear, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, or oversensitivity is an important task for Spade.
Spade is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If David Spade does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits David Spade better than being with groups of his own peers.
David Spade seesaws between playing it safe, and doing something unique and original, between self-control and letting loose, between being a responsible adult and a rebellious adolescent, between what David has to or should do and what his spontaneous impulses tell him to do. All of this creates enormous inner tension as well as friction with people in his environment. David Spade may, for instance, bitterly resent government or authority figures who "crush his individuality", yet ignore his obligations and responsibilities, thus ensuring that they will pursue him. Learning to give each side its due is an ongoing challenge for Spade.
He is a bit skeptical, somewhat irritable, and others may think of David Spade as quarrelsome or nagging. His nervousness seems to stem from his tendency to over-work himself, and Spade should try not to make more demands on others than they are able to handle.
Basically shy, Spade tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing his love for someone. David Spade longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but he is also inclined to torment himself because of a seeming lack of affection.
He is inclined to feel inferior and may easily be taken in by others. David has to guard against being deceived or used by others, though his intentions may be good. David Spade must not let his desire to have things cloud his ability to see what is really happening.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which David Spade instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction David Spade needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, David Spade is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in David Spade's growth. David Spade needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that David Spade is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Spade's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
Spade is inclined to seek out relationships with people who have the same interests and he has a desire to work with them toward obtaining mutually shared objectives. Some of David's contacts or introductions could come about suddenly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Opposition Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Saturn Opposition Venus/Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mars/Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/Asc.