Dave Kushner
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Dave Kushner rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Kushner's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Kushner may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Dave difficult to live with. Dave Kushner needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Kushner depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Dave's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Dave Kushner may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Dave Kushner cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Kushner's motto.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Dave Kushner cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Kushner's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Dave at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Dave Kushner is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Dave Kushner may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Dave desires.

Kushner is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Dave Kushner thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Dave Kushner to be able to deeply respect his partner. Dave looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Dave Kushner is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 7th house

Moon Trine Mars

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Saturn