Darren Day in Relationships
Darren Day has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Day expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Darren Day dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Darren abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Darren Day inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Darren is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Day.
Darren Day becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Day feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Day depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Darren's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Darren Day may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Darren Day was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Darren Day feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Darren's emotional well-being.
In addition to Darren's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Darren Day craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Day rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Darren Day tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Darren Day could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Darren that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Darren Day craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Darren Day needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Day. Darren Day tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.
He is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to his surroundings. Darren may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Darren Day may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Darren Day cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Darren wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Darren Day is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Darren Day craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Day enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Darren Day very happy. Darren wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Darren Day may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Day is a natural host or diplomat.
Darren Day tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, he may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied himself. Darren could also be subject to improper liaisons.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 7th house
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Opposition Uranus/Neptune
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node
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