approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Danny's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Danny Sugerman comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Danny Sugerman - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Danny Sugerman" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Danny a little better. This page describes the disguise Sugerman wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Danny Sugerman will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Danny has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Danny Sugerman very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Sugerman is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Danny Sugerman will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Sugerman's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Danny Sugerman appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Sugerman is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Danny possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Danny Sugerman - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Danny Sugerman does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Danny.
Others see Danny Sugerman as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Sugerman shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Danny Sugerman usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
The effect of his childhood experiences, and the beliefs and attitudes Danny learned while young, are clearly apparent in his demeanor. It is all right on the surface, but when trouble arises Danny Sugerman seems childish and needy. When he is in smoother waters, he appears to have a vulnerable, trusting nature that brings out the mothering instinct in other people.
Danny Sugerman tends to lead a very harmonious life and live in peaceful surroundings. His emotions seem to play a big part in his relationships with others and Sugerman bases his relationships on inner understanding between people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon Opposition Asc.
Asc. Opposition MC/N. Node