Damon Albarn
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Damon Albarn denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Damon Albarn needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Damon Albarn also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Albarn depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Damon's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Damon Albarn may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Damon Albarn tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Damon Albarn becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Damon Albarn also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Damon Albarn feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Albarn can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Damon's emotional indulgence - Albarn tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Damon Albarn craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Albarn also loves to feel free and unfettered.

Although Damon Albarn was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Damon's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Damon Albarn tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Damon to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Damon Albarn may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

His feelings depend on the conditions in his environment and therefore Damon Albarn could be subject to moods. He is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch him deeply. Damon Albarn could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of him.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Damon Albarn gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Damon Albarn may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Damon feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Damon Albarn idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Damon is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Damon Albarn feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is very affectionate in his relationships and tends to form deep attachments with other people. Damon Albarn may also enjoy contacts with the arts and may join associations that are connected with artistic events or cultural exchanges.

Damon Albarn tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Damon Albarn also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.

Damon has the ability to share the abundance of love he feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Albarn, and he has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Moon/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC

Venus Opposition Jupiter/Pluto