Cyndi Lauper
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Cyndi Lauper only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Lauper.

Cyndi has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Cyndi Lauper has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Cyndi Lauper to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Cyndi Lauper has a great deal of emotional depth.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Cyndi Lauper a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Cyndi's past are especially dear to her.

Cyndi Lauper may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Cyndi Lauper cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Lauper's motto.

In love relationships, Cyndi Lauper is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Cyndi enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Cyndi Lauper responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.

Cyndi is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Cyndi Lauper feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Cyndi, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Cyndi Lauper tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Lauper's life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Mars

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Uranus