challenges and difficulties
Collier has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Young.
His childhood or his relationships with his parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Collier from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Collier Young felt deprived in some manner, whether or not he actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of his needs and feelings may typify his early life, at least as Young remembers it. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Collier Young needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Collier accomplish this.
Collier Young becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Young is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
When he is with others, Collier Young often may suddenly become inhibited. He is inclined to be afraid of confrontations and probably will avoid group activities as much as possible.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Collier Young instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Collier Young needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Collier Young is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Collier Young's growth. Collier Young needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Collier Young to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Collier Young has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Young makes a big impression on everyone he meets and has the ability to attract many people. Others find Collier Young very fascinating and he is likely to see himself as their model or example in groups or associations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Uranus/N. Node
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Pluto