Claudia Gonson in Relationships
Claudia Gonson responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Gonson often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Claudia Gonson must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Claudia's need for times of withdrawal.
Claudia Gonson is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Claudia Gonson takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
Claudia has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Claudia Gonson may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Gonson's tie to her mother is very strong and Claudia Gonson also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.
Gonson is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to her. In fact, Claudia Gonson needs to do these things or otherwise she gets crabby.
She is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Claudia Gonson does not like to be alone and she always keeps her house open for her friends and acquaintances.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Claudia Gonson gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Claudia Gonson may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Claudia feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Claudia Gonson idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Claudia Gonson often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Claudia. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Claudia Gonson may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Claudia Gonson - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.
Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Claudia Gonson possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Claudia may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Claudia Gonson may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Claudia Gonson is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Claudia is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Claudia Gonson professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Gonson a lot of breathing space.
Sensitive and compassionate, Gonson tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Claudia has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Claudia is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Claudia Gonson explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Gonson will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Claudia Gonson things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Gonson will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Claudia Gonson needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 4th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon Conjunct Uranus/N. Node
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 12th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Opposition Pluto
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