Christopher Lee challenges and difficulties
Christopher Lee takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Christopher enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Christopher Lee also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Christopher Lee has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Christopher limits himself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in himself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Christopher Lee difficult to get to know intimately, as Lee tends to distance himself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
He is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of his objectives. Christopher Lee has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in his way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Christopher Lee instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Christopher Lee needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Christopher stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Christopher Lee has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Christopher Lee feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Christopher Lee calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Christopher Lee needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Christopher Lee between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Christopher Lee seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Lee's task.
The following are specific activities that will support Christopher Lee in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Lee, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Christopher Lee should develop faith and confidence both in himself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help him. He needs to expand his willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable him to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with his time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Christopher Lee.
Christopher Lee should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. He may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Lee's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. He is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Christopher really wants such jobs or not, usually because he has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in his path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Lee's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Pluto
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
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