challenges and difficulties
Christina Milian takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Christina enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Christina Milian also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with her duty, her public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Christina Milian understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and she is capable of much self-discipline and patience once she sets her sights on a goal.
But Christina Milian is very judgmental and hard on herself if she fails to attain success, and she can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize her efforts.
Her aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Christina Milian pursues her aims in a systematic, disciplined, and thorough manner, and she is willing to takes her time, advancing slowly and steadily on her way towards her goal.
Sometimes Christina Milian underestimates what is possible, and holds herself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
She is inclined to be somewhat timid and afraid to start something on her own, preferring that someone else tells her what to do. Christina Milian can easily be deterred from pursuing her goals, making her advancement in life rather slow.
Christina should take care not to trust others too blindly. Some of her friends or associates may be untruthful and try to deceive her, resulting in great disappointments or even losses for Milian.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Christina Milian instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Christina Milian needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Christina Milian is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Christina Milian's growth. Christina Milian needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Christina Milian has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Milian will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 10th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Jupiter
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 8th house