Chris Bearde
in Relationships

Chris does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Chris Bearde would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Chris Bearde avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Bearde. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Chris Bearde has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Chris sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Chris Bearde is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Chris cannot hide his emotions.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Chris does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Chris Bearde is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

In a love relationship, Chris Bearde is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Chris likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Chris Bearde becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Chris Bearde's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Chris Bearde needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Bearde finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

For Chris Bearde, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Chris values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Chris Bearde needs to beware of.

Chris Bearde is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Chris Bearde pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Chris Bearde cannot or will not hold onto it. Chris Bearde has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Bearde's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Chris freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Bearde could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Bearde also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Chris Bearde just wants to have a good time.

Chris' pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Chris Bearde is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Bearde is to being left out or unappreciated.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Chris Bearde rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Chris is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Bearde craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Chris Bearde needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Square Saturn