challenges and difficulties
Blair both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Cherie, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Cherie Blair is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Blair.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Cherie from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Cherie Blair felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Blair remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Cherie Blair needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Cherie accomplish this.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Cherie Blair instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Cherie Blair needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cherie Blair has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Cherie Blair needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Cherie Blair needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her work and her relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Blair's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The following are specific activities that will support Cherie Blair in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Blair, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Cherie Blair should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Blair's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Cherie Blair needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Cherie needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 4th house
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars