Cher
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Cher denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Cher needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Cher also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Cherilyn LaPiere depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Cher's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Cher may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Cher has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Cher out for help, sympathy or advice. Cher is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.
There is another side to Cher as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Cher either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Cher tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Cherilyn LaPiere's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Cher will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
In addition to Cher's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Cher craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Cherilyn LaPiere rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Cher tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Cher can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Cher also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Cher craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.
Cher has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and her emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Cher and she may have an early desire for marriage.
Cher's emotional life seems to be overly intense and her sexuality is very strong. Cher is likely to make many demands of her partner and she has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love her.
Her attitude toward other people is very emotional and Cher feels a certain soul affinity with them. Cher has an inner need to express her feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where she can help to further their accomplishments.
In a love relationship, Cher is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Cher likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Cher becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Cher's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Cher needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Cherilyn LaPiere finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Cher often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Cher. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Cher may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Cher - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.
Cher tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Cher enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 7th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Opposition Venus/Mars
Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto
Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 12th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
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