Chastity Bono
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Chastity Bono rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Bono's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Bono may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Chastity difficult to live with. Chastity Bono needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Chastity Bono may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Bono has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Chastity Bono wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Chastity is restless and something of a wanderer.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Chastity Bono enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Chastity wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Chastity Bono and she invests a lot of her energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Chastity shares her affection with the people in her family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for her. Being at home makes Bono happy.

Intimacy does not come easily to Chastity Bono and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Bono does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Chastity Bono needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Chastity Bono to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Bono may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Chastity Bono will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Chastity Bono has a passionate nature and a strong expression of her sexuality. Her creative energies also are strong and she may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Chastity Bono could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 9th house

Venus in Aries

Venus in 4th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Mars

Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune