Charlotte of Belgium in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Charlotte of Belgium rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Charlotte Amélie's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Charlotte Amélie may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Charlotte Empress of Mexico difficult to live with. Charlotte of Belgium needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Charlotte of Belgium has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Charlotte Amélie also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Charlotte Empress of Mexico, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Charlotte of Belgium often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Charlotte Amélie actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Charlotte of Belgium to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Charlotte of Belgium becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Charlotte Amélie can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Charlotte Empress of Mexico's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Charlotte of Belgium craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Charlotte Amélie rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Her childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Charlotte Amélie received was erratic and unreliable at best. Charlotte of Belgium has had to move a lot, or Charlotte Amélie's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Charlotte Empress of Mexico was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Charlotte of Belgium may long for "normalcy" while at the same time she balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Charlotte of Belgium often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Charlotte Amélie, both emotionally and physically.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Charlotte of Belgium needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Charlotte Amélie. Charlotte of Belgium tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Charlotte Amélie does not.
Charlotte of Belgium has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Charlotte Empress of Mexico should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. She prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.
Charlotte Amélie is reserved and shy and her thinking is controlled and somewhat slow. When talking, Charlotte of Belgium sometimes may have the feeling that the words get stuck in her throat. Because of her disciplined mind, Charlotte Empress of Mexico is able to concentrate easily.
Charlotte of Belgium has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and her feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Charlotte Empress of Mexico goes out of her way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.
She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Charlotte of Belgium immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
Charlotte Empress of Mexico has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Charlotte of Belgium, and she is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of her friends.
In a love relationship, Charlotte of Belgium is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Charlotte Empress of Mexico likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Charlotte of Belgium becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Charlotte of Belgium's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Charlotte of Belgium needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Charlotte Amélie finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
For Charlotte of Belgium, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Charlotte Empress of Mexico values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Charlotte of Belgium needs to beware of.
Charlotte of Belgium is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Charlotte of Belgium pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/Saturn
Moon Opposition Mercury/Saturn
Moon Opposition Venus/MC
Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto
Moon Opposition N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Conjunct Mars
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