approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Charlie's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Charlie Murphy comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Charlie Murphy - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Charlie Murphy" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Charlie a little better. This page describes the disguise Murphy wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Charlie Murphy will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Charlie has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Charlie Murphy very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Murphy is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Charlie Murphy will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Murphy's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Charlie Murphy appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Murphy is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Charlie possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Charlie Murphy - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Charlie Murphy does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Charlie.
Others see Charlie Murphy as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Murphy shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Charlie Murphy usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
He is impressionable, sympathetic, and responsive to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him. Charlie Murphy harmonizes, blends, and adapts himself to other people. Often he is rather quiet, just listening and feeling. He is subtle and knows when to keep silent and wait. Charlie acts instinctively, sensing and intuiting when the time is right for action.
Charlie Murphy comes across as contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. He watches his step, and frequently withdraws if his environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Murphy may seem much more conservative than he actually is. Charlie is wary of committing social blunders and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As he matures, Charlie Murphy's confidence is likely to grow because he will learn to depend more on his own self-assessment..
Charlie has good organization skills and he knows how to arrange everything skillfully. Happy in teamwork and adept at negotiating, he can lead successful business meetings. Charlie Murphy can easily obtain all the information he needs in order to make the best deal.
Charlie Murphy seems to enjoy projecting a different image of himself to others, giving them a false impression of himself. He is inclined to associate with odd and peculiar people and is likely to have very strange romantic relationships.
Charlie Murphy has a strong desire to constantly be in the limelight and he considers second place as a failure. Murphy is very self-confident, has the ability to mold his surrounding to his own needs and is likely to furnish his home according to his taste.
He may feel that personal relationships are interfering with the pursuit of his goals and chooses to lead a life on his own. But at the same time Charlie Murphy often may feel lonely and alienated by others.
Other people may consider his environment a bit strange and Murphy likes to surround himself with a certain air of mystery. Charlie Murphy tends to be very secretive and is likely to exert his power from behind the scenes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon Conjunct Asc.
Saturn Square Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Neptune
Asc. Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/MC
Asc. Conjunct Neptune/Pluto