Charlie Chaplin
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Charlie Chaplin trusts and opens himself to very few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Chaplin.

Charlie has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Charlie Chaplin has a nasty habit of holding on to past hurts, resentments, and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Charlie Chaplin to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Charlie Chaplin has a great deal of emotional depth.

Charlie Chaplin has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Charlie sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Charlie Chaplin is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Charlie cannot hide his emotions.

Charlie Chaplin takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend, or act first, and ask questions later. Impatience, irritability and bursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations, are rather common with him. When Chaplin is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Charlie Chaplin actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Charlie Chaplin also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances that. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Charlie Chaplin has a cheering effect on those around him. Charlie likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.

Although Chaplin gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables Charlie Chaplin to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

There is another side to Charlie Chaplin as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Charlie Chaplin often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Chaplin actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Charlie Chaplin to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises that can occur when he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Charlie Chaplin becomes much attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Chaplin can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

His mind is very impressionable and sometimes his imagination could be a little misguided. Charlie Chaplin loves to daydream and to live in his own world of fantasies. But he is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.

In love relationships, Charlie Chaplin is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensually oriented and needs lots of touching and physical affection. Charlie enjoys being pampered with a good meal, loving massage, or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover, very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of the one he loves. Charlie Chaplin is tremendously responsive to beauty and physical appearances, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Chaplin is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. Charlie Chaplin prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Charlie.

Charlie is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes Charlie Chaplin very popular.

Charlie Chaplin is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Charlie Chaplin pursues them very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Doing creative work or artistic work can also satisfy the very strong desire for love and beauty that Charlie feels.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Charlie Chaplin rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Charlie is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Chaplin craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Charlie Chaplin needs to learn to love and value himself before he will find happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Chaplin is apt to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and for security in his relationships, Charlie Chaplin has an impulsive side and need a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Charlie acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Charlie Chaplin to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Charlie becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Charlie Chaplin really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Charlie's closest relationships.

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