challenges and difficulties
Chad has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Lowe.
Chad Lowe takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Lowe a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Chad Lowe and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Lowe will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
His faith, optimism, and sense of possibilities are tempered by a great deal of caution, and often doubt or skepticism as well. Whatever hopes or visions Chad Lowe has for his life are firmly held in check by his sense of reality. At times he may wish for more freedom, but Chad also fears it and holds back. Chad Lowe may blame practical limitations, some external condition or the prevailing Authority for his own inhibitions.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Chad Lowe instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Chad Lowe needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Chad Lowe - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Lowe tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Chad Lowe is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Lowe's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Chad Lowe needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Chad Lowe to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Chad Lowe has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Chad Lowe has a strong desire to share his opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that he has. He may enjoy studying and developing his intellectual interests with them.
Chad Lowe seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. He is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where he may share his unusual experiences with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Pluto