challenges and difficulties
Bergen fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Candice Bergen may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Candice.
Candice Bergen takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Bergen a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Candice Bergen and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Bergen will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Candice has an inner conflict between idealism, hope, and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. Candice Bergen needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Bergen will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Candice Bergen instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Candice Bergen needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Candice Bergen needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Candice's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Bergen's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Candice Bergen to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Candice Bergen is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Candice Bergen needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in her work and her relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Bergen's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The following are specific activities that will support Candice Bergen in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Bergen, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Candice Bergen should be willing to become more of a free thinker, to experiment and change, to loosen her ties to tradition and the known and to allow for new developments. She needs to practice getting involved in an area involving new techniques, rapid changes and innovation. Candice can be part of the avant-garde promoting such changes - be it in science, music or social relationships. Candice Bergen has to be willing to be different and perhaps to be considered eccentric or odd.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Conjunct Uranus