challenges and difficulties
Calum Best takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Calum enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Calum Best also fears entrapment in close relationships.
It may be difficult for Calum Best to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Calum may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Calum Best also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Calum Best pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and he is willing to take his time, advancing slowly and steadily toward his goal.
Sometimes Calum Best underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Best forges ahead diligently, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for his efforts. Reserved and shy, Calum Best tends to build a wall between himself and others and he seems to be more receptive to older and more mature people.
Calum tries to build his life on solid ground, but may find it difficult to move forward because he always tends to look back. This could result in feelings of inferiority and periodic depression.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Calum Best instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Calum Best needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Calum Best's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Best's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Calum Best is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Calum should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Calum Best can offer the world at large.
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Calum Best is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Best's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
Calum Best has a friendly, open and sociable demeanor and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. He may enjoy participating in artistic events and he likes to associate with art lovers.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 5th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Opposition Sun/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Asc./MC
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Venus