challenges and difficulties
Deschanel fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Caleb Deschanel may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Caleb.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Caleb. He strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for him.
On another level entirely, Caleb Deschanel is very careful about joining forces, and especially his material resources, with others. Deschanel wants to keep his own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Caleb Deschanel instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Caleb Deschanel needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Caleb Deschanel is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Caleb Deschanel's growth. Caleb Deschanel needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Caleb Deschanel has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Deschanel will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Because of some other people and circumstances around him, at times Caleb Deschanel may find it difficult to follow his ambitions. It could be to Caleb's advantage to sever his relationships with those controlling or trying to abuse him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Saturn/Pluto