Brian Epstein in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Brian should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Epstein often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Epstein's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Brian Epstein insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Brian does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Brian Epstein feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Brian Epstein cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Brian Epstein has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Brian takes risks on impulse or whim.
Brian Epstein has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Brian out for help, sympathy or advice. Brian Epstein is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
Brian Epstein craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Brian Epstein to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Epstein. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Epstein likes it that way.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Brian Epstein that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Epstein's neediness often drives others away. When Brian Epstein does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Epstein will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Brian Epstein will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
His thinking is dictated by his feelings and Epstein may rely on his intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. His advice may often be sought and heeded, because Brian Epstein seems to know and understand what motivates others.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Brian Epstein is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Brian Epstein also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Epstein is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Brian Epstein is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Brian uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Brian Epstein does.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Brian Epstein yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Epstein frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Brian Epstein does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Brian has the ability to share the abundance of love he feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Epstein, and he has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 5th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Square Uranus
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/MC
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
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