approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Bobby's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Bobby Vee comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Bobby Vee - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Bobby Vee" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Bobby a little better. This page describes the disguise Vee wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Bobby Vee likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. He is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. He is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Vee must have something of his own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that he can develop and manage according to his own will and vision. Whatever Bobby does, he does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. He likes to put his own personal stamp on it.
Bobby Vee also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats him in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Vee will rarely confront the offender - he is too proud to do so - but he will lose his affection and respect for them. Bobby dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Vee admires others who are strong individuals like himself. When Bobby Vee befriends someone, Vee is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. He is very giving and generous, but his gifts are never anonymous - Bobby expects recognition and appreciation for them. He also expects the intense loyalty that he offers to his dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Bobby Vee often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as himself, for he does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If he is not in the leading role, he aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Bobby Vee has great heart and courage, and people often look to him for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Bobby always puts his best face forward and rarely allows others to see him hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Bobby Vee also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although he does not like others to realize just how important it is to him.
His outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. His own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Bobby more than anything else. Bobby Vee feels that if he does his best where he is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
Despite the fact that his core self is quite distinct from the face the world generally sees, Bobby Vee has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant impact on people in his environment. He may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, Bobby Vee often does not get the full recognition he yearns for.
Bobby Vee comes across as responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities that encourage others to take him seriously. He is unlikely to present himself as more than he is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Bobby Vee was mature for his age.
Bobby often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than necessary to achieve his aims. And naturally, if people perceive that he is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will strongly resist Bobby Vee and his objectives. Vee might be more successful if he tones himself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing his own needs and wants.
Bobby Vee seems to enjoy projecting a different image of himself to others, giving them a false impression of himself. He is inclined to associate with odd and peculiar people and is likely to have very strange romantic relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Square Asc.
Saturn Sextile Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Neptune