Bette Davis
in Relationships

Bette does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Bette Davis would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Bette Davis avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Davis. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Davis depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Bette's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Bette Davis may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Bette Davis tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Bette Davis can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Bette also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Bette Davis craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.

Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Bette Davis seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Bette has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Davis can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.

Emotionally, she is very vulnerable and tends to have her feelings hurt quite easily. She is very impressionable and inclined to suffer states of melancholy or depression. Bette Davis may choose a profession where she is allowed to be her own boss.

Bette Davis responds to her environment in a highly emotional way and encounters with other people can get her excited easily. Her mood tends to change quickly, though, depending on the response Bette receives from others.

In a love relationship, Bette Davis is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Bette likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Bette Davis becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Bette Davis' happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Bette Davis needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Davis finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Davis is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Bette Davis prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Bette.

Bette is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Bette Davis very popular.

Bette Davis is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Bette Davis pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Bette Davis loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Bette considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well-liked. At times, Bette Davis overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets this.

Bette's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Bette Davis is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Davis is to being left out or unappreciated.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Bette Davis to be able to deeply respect her partner. Bette looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to her. Bette Davis is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.

Davis' constitution tends to be on the weak side and she may tire easily. In love relationships she could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Bette Davis could also have questionable romances that leave Bette disappointed.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 7th house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Conjunct Pluto

Moon Conjunct Saturn/MC

Moon Opposition Uranus/Asc.

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 7th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune