approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Benji's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Benji Madden comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Benji Madden - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Benji Madden" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Benji a little better. This page describes the disguise Madden wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Benji Madden appears gentle and soft, and he acts rather reserved with others until he knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Benji has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: his heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for him. Madden tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Madden.
Madden approaches life emotionally and subjectively and he is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around him. Instinctive and non-rational, Benji Madden is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for his actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.
His emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Benji's thoughts and opinions. He views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach himself from his own personal bias and prejudices. He is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects him and those dear and close to him, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, he may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Benji and his near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for him and his near and dear ones, it is no good.
He is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those he cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Benji Madden empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, he is easily moved by others' pain, and Benji Madden is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.
His moods fluctuate and change frequently and he is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Benji Madden communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.
Benji never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to him.
He may come across as a bit scattered, nervous or restless, as if unable to sit still. Benji Madden seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Benji tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind soothing.
He is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Benji Madden is or what he wants - he is pretty much up front. Benji radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when he is at his best. He seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
Benji Madden comes across as responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities that encourage others to take him seriously. He is unlikely to present himself as more than he is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Benji Madden was mature for his age.
The way Benji Madden comes across to others, particularly at first impression, tends to conceal certain important facets of his character. Specifically, what gives Benji pleasure, how he likes to give and receive affection, and what he seeks in friendship or love relationships are not at all apparent based on Madden's outward demeanor. Benji Madden seems to send mixed signals, and this can create a bit of confusion for the people who are interested in getting close to him or knowing him on more than a superficial level.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mercury Square Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Saturn Sextile Asc.
Venus Quincunx Asc.