Ben Barnes
in Relationships
Ben Barnes has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Barnes expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Ben Barnes dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Ben abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Ben Barnes inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Ben is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Barnes.
Ben Barnes becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Barnes feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Ben Barnes has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Barnes also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Ben, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Ben Barnes tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Ben Barnes could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Ben that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Ben Barnes craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.
His mind is very impressionable and sometimes his imagination could be a little misguided. Ben Barnes loves to daydream and to live in his own world of fantasies. But he is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.
Ben Barnes has a magnetic personality, are unconventional, and a bit unpredictable. Ben loves to flirt and is likely to have sudden romantic relationships that do not always last. Ben Barnes likes variety and always is seeking new experiences with people.
Ben Barnes possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Ben Barnes will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Ben does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Ben Barnes wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Ben Barnes appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Barnes is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Ben Barnes thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Intimacy does not come easily to Ben Barnes and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Barnes does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Ben Barnes needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
He is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Ben Barnes seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Barnes tends to lead a modern way of life; his style of clothes as well as general life style.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 6th house
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Opposition Mercury/Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Uranus
Venus in Libra
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Conjunct Uranus/MC
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